We have started the holidays here at our house and we have started a new Thanksgiving tradition besides and yummy food. I have wanted to do this for two years now and the kids are finally old enough to understand. It's our thankful tree, it doesn't have much on it after our first day in November but by turkey day it will be packed with all the things we are thankful for. Next year I think I might laminate the tree, boy did it take forever to cut out all those branches, but it was all worth it to teach those boys how to be thankful.
Our next little project in the month of November had to do with kittens. Jeff had left for the week to go hunting in CO and I had talked my mom into skipping school on Friday to spend the weekend with us. One of our weekly duties is feeding the chickens down at the barn. As I was just finishing up, the boys found two tiny kittens in the pig pens next door. They were just meowing like crazy and so little. Of course those sweet compassionate hearts just wanted to love and hold them. Whereas their mother, who despises cats of all shapes and sizes was not about to let them touch those things! After a look from my mom and multiple from the boys I gave in and we had a new project on our hands. Luckily this was not the first cat to be taken in and we got the old kitty stand out in the back of the barn. We took them home, made them a bed with soft blankets and started to feed them. They had all this pus in their eyes so, much to my disgust, we wiped it all out with hydrogen peroxide. They then decided to start drinking milk and eating tuna. Golden! Now they can feed themselves and we are set for the week till its warms up and they can get the mice at the barn. My heart did soften a bit and the boys would hold them anytime they meowed and put them to sleep.
On Sunday however, my mom mentioned cleaning out their bed. I didn't hear them making any noise and she said they were still sleeping. A couple hours later I went out to check on them and lifted up the stand to look at them and I had to make the sad announcement that they were dead! They didn't believe me, so they picked up the dead kittens, heads flopping all over. So here I am my prego self in my pjs with a coat on trying to dig a grave in frozen ground. I only made it maybe 10 inches down and that was it. So into the shallow grave they went as the boys watched from the deck upstairs with tears in their eyes. Luckily they had chosen to stay in the house because as I shoveled more dirt on the poor things the bigger orange one let out one last feeble meow as I put the dirt on. My heart had changed for those two little kittens over the past two days and tears started coming. It was a life lesson learned for the boys and we talked about life after death and the resurrection. It was a lesson learned for me about compassion for all that our Father in Heaven as created.
We had so much fun with my mom. We built a snowman and went to the swimming pool for our Saturday entertainment. I never could have done that weekend without her!
First snowman of the year!







